If you don't someone else will.

It is a sad but true fact that what you don't/won't do for your significant other, there is someone else out there who is glad to do it for less than half the hassle. If you watch Katt Williams then you have heard him say "Nigga I'm the moth fucka thats keeping your family together, and you can't even buy a nigga a drink you disrespectful bastard!?!?!?!" there is a young lady on Twitter, and can't knock her hustle. But she is basically hooking on twitter, and she often states "If you don't suck your mans dick, then i will..." Another line Katt Williams has said and I'm loosely translating this is that if you don't suck dick don't expect certain things to be done, but if you do you can have any damn thing you want. Now I AM NOT CONDONING MEN/WOMEN CHEATING.....I REPEAT I AM NOT CONDONING MEN/WOMEN CHEATING. But if you significant other asks for certain things done and you choose not to do them is he or she really wrong for going elsewhere. I mean if i don't get fed at home can you be mad at me for going to Mcdonalds or Wendys or somewhere else to get some food??? Especially when i have asked to be fed?? No I am not in the wrong. I had a teacher in HS give me a very simple yet intricate key to relationships. he told me the woman you want to marry should be a woman you can talk to, a woman you can make love to, and a woman you can fuck. Alot of people don't believe thats true. But when you think about it, the woman/person described in is completing all desires. Now for those of you who don't know FUCKING is very much different than making love. It is more than just the motion of the feeling emotionally, it is the very act it self. When making love you want to be wrapped up in that person you want to feel like you are floating off of the bed, you want to feel raptured, taken away, not relevant to the time and space that you are in. But when you are fucking someone, male of female you want to be as nasty with that person as possible without taking it overboard. These are the things that keep your relationship from going stale. There is nothing like coming home to your woman dressed like a straight freak, and as soon as you open the door she is on her knees or on the couch waiting to suck your dick. Or for women there is nothing like having your man come out of nowhere and snatch you up and eat your pussy of fuck you like you were his favorite pornstar. I know i have been there lol. But it gives spontaneity to your relationship. It gives your significant other a reason not to go elsewhere. Some of y'all need to learn. Love is stronger than pride. Now whatever hang ups you have about certain things i understand its alot of shit mentally that you have to work past, but it is worth it especially when you truly love that someone and that someone truly loves you. You do what is needed to keep that someone happy because when it all boils down to it. If you don't do it, someone else will.

Stay blessed and stay free

Peace,

the god.

What the fuck gives you the right???

What the fuck makes people think they have the right to do whatever they want to someone and still lay claim. For example a husband cheats on his wife, when she decides to leave he thinks he can still lay claim to her and their marriage. NO NIGGA. It was cool when you was doin you now that she don't wanna fuck with your ass no more you feeling some kinda way and you wanna ruin her life. FUCK THAT man the fuck up and move on. You are seriously on some bitch made shit. And your former flame may have found that nigga that will tune your ass up. I'm sick and fucking tired of people fucking up and not wanting to let go. Here's a fucking Idea stop fucking up. Its fucking amazing that i cant have a relationship with someone because they dont want me killing their ex cuz his fucking ass doesnt know how to let go. and women dont think yall are exempt cuz yall do that bullshit too. Fucking with your ex just cuz you dont want to see him happy cuz you fucked up. Here is the bottom line, You have 2 options option A) stop fucking up that way you get to keep your significant other. Option 2) if you do fuck up then realize you fucked up apologize and pray that person wants you back. If they dont want you back then accept it and move on you had all this side action going on when you were with your significant other so im sure you can find someone to be with you. I mean whatever you were ding must have been worth risking your relationship or marriage. Honestly i dont give a fuck for the reasoning behind it. The shit needs to stop. Your selfish ass is fucking up alot cuz you want to have your cake eat it save a piece for later nibble here and there. GROW THE FUCK UP

Peace,
The god.

Yo Selfish Ass....

"You're such a great friend," "I can always count on you," and "Thank you for being who you are," are phrases that I am growing to despise because they only come after I have gone well out of my way to help you and you know damn well no one else wanted to help you.  Now I don't have a problem helping someone, but its the motherfuckers who literally take advantage of the fact that people are nice. Then on top of constantly using someone, they are completely self-centered.  How do you tell somebody what to do with their own stuff? I never understood that shit. Bitch really? Where they do that at? What part of the country do they teach people to be so fucking selfish that you literally don't give a damn about anybody other than yourself? Then you have the nerve to wonder why nobody wants to be bothered with you. Hell I completely understand why they don't fuck with you. People like this are entities that I consider to be "negative droids". These people drain you of your positive energy, sometimes unknowingly, just because of all the baggage they drag around.  They're needy, sometimes annoying, self-absorbed, and think brutal honestly is charming. In reality, all of this is a turnoff on many levels of relationships whether platonic or intimate.
Now my bf can be a selfish ass monkey sometimes, but we have it out often.  He goes a little too far left with his selfishness, but I check it when it gets to be too much to handle. Maybe some people need someone in their corner to cuss them the fuck out every once in a while to keep them level.  I might have to nominate myself as that person in a lot of people's lives. Now here is classic example of utter selfishness with a side order of rude as hell.
My mother, sister, and I were out shopping when my mom made a b-line to a black woman's favorite store other than the shoe store. The Beauty Supply Store!!! Any who, while my mother can irritate the snot out of my taking FOREVER to checkout, there was a line of other waiting their turn to be attended to.  Well this loud, extremely inappropriately dressed for her size, Europeaned out woman (she was over 18, hope she was nobody's momma) decided that she was going to make the Asian woman behind the counter make special arrangements for her.  "I gotta go! I don't have time to be waiting. I got shit to do and this is taking to long. Check me out now! Hello I said I gotta go now. I got stuff to do!" At that moment my mother looked dead at me because she knew I was getting ready to open my mouth. Now this is what I was thinking (because I have an old school mom who would have knocked me into 2017 for cussing in front of her), "Bitch have you lost your goddamn mind yelling at these people cause your trifling ass want to update your fucking weave? Nobody told your busted rude ass to be running late to wherever the fuck you supposed to be, but you not gonna jump my mother or these other people cause you never learned how to be patient. Try me if you fucking want to. I can show you better than I can tell. Promise you that. Jump, Judy, please I dare you, you scandalous hussy coming up in here wit you ass hanging out like everybody want to see that shit. Have some damn respect for yourself. What the hell is wrong with you!!!" This was a west-side moment brought to you by stupid. Stupid it comes in every shape, size, and ethnicity. Now back from commercial break. She was two good strides from a foot up her ass when my sister pulled me out of the store. I utterly despise selfishness.  You not the only motherfucker on the planet.  You might be the only one looking out your eyes, but if you're an organ donor that may not be the case.  Fuck around with the wrong person and I'm sure that you will get your opportunity. You feel me.
Yes the world has changed. Yes people are colder now that they have ever been, but that doesn't give you the right to be a less that decent human being. Lower class animals respect each other better that we do sometimes yet we have full reign of the world. I know the Creator gave us all the elements that we need to be considerate and empathetic passengers on this voyage we call life.  There is no need to run over, mistreat, use, or abuse someone just because the have a good heart or have a harder time saying no than your selfish ass.  Take a look in the mirror and decide whether or not you would want someone doing to you what you do to others. Being Needy or Selfish is not a good trait to have unless its for survival. Leave that childish shit in primary school. Do some Self-Inflection and find out why you feel the world must revolve around you. The truth may surprise you and not in a good way.

~The Goddess~