Cant move forward cuz your latched to the bullshit behind you.

Alight imma say this shit flat out. I'M SICK OF MOTHER FUCKERS TALKING ABOUT THEY HAVE A PAST, THEY HAVE BEEN HURT BEFORE, THEY CANT LET GO OF THEIR PASTS. I......DON'T......GIVE.....A.......FLYING........FUCK. Its very simple. You cant make forward progress because you are still holding on to the things in your past. Don't believe me??? Try this simple experiment. Find 2 people have one stand behind you and one in front of you now have the person behind you hold you back with all their strength, and try to get to the person in front of you. Now some people may be strong enough to get ahead with the weight of whats behind them. Good for you, but those of you who cant, that's a sign to let that shit go. Because of the past that you choose to cling to all of the baggage that comes with it will carry into any attempts you make towards a future. Example: you have trust issues stemming from a past relationship. you meet someone new and now that person is falling victim to the shit you should have been doing with the fucker from before, and because that person has decided that they don't like what you are putting them through they leave. And now you have chased away someone who was potentially good for you because you cant let go of your past. The thing about the past is that you are supposed to learn from it. There is a difference between being discerning and and not trusting someone. Your past is there to teach you to look out for warning signs of danger, not to make some up because you don't know how to let go. and the process of letting go is simple. First forgive that person because as long a you don't forgive them they have power over you. Second give everyone their own slate. Don't start me where you and your fuckhead left off cuz I'm not him. Third we all know the saying about assuming so, so i will just say this, don't assume everything you see/hear is as is. Communication goes along way. not everything you WEREN'T told is a lie.
And last, and this one doesn't apply to everyone, but look at yourself sometimes as the cause of some issues. It just sounds funny if everyone but you was wrong in every situation that you have been in. Ownership is the word of the year, take responsibility for your part in some shit. Every story has 2 sides, so know your side of it, understand it, and fix it. That's all the teaching I'm doing for today but this was mostly a venting session about some shit I'm just sick of seeing and hearing. Bottom line: FUCK YOUR ISSUES AND YOUR PAST. We all have issues and we all have a past. The difference is what we choose to do with the past and the issues. Use them to make us strong and push us forward or allow them to make us weak and hold us back. The choice is and always has been yours.

Peace
The god Osiris