Respect is Earned, not Given...

Now I find that it behoves me to speak on the ignorance of respect being given not earned.  At one point in life, people were taught how to respect themselves, their families, their neighborhood, their community.  We respected our family name, our elders, and those who were deem authoritative, but as it stands today, people are just lacking the common sense to respect themselves.  I constantly have my fucking eyes molested by stupid ass motherfuckers who feel the need to expose themselves to the entire world just for the sake of being dumb.  Why should I have to undergo thirty seconds of your cootie in the wind because your skirt is too short or define the crack in your ass because your trifling ass didn't feel the need to wear a belt today?  Do you not understand where that shit came from and how much of an influence it is leaving on your kids? See the problem isn't the fruit that fell far from the tree, its the motherfucking shady ass disrespectful TREE!!!!! How can a tree bear good fruit when it is rotten to the fucking core, its roots are molded, and its leaves tinged by the years of inner turmoil? I had  a discussion with a brother one day about how women need to come up.  In a half a breathe, he retorted that men had to do the same and both simultaneously.  After some debate, I finally understood where he was coming from.  His point was this, both men and women have to raise their standards if they want to achieve anything of meaning----relationships, money, employment, happiness, trust, etc.  See without both coming up, the other side is left to deal with the ignorant motherfuckers who don't give a fuck about whether they coming or going.  We all know them.  That girl who don't give a flying fuck who ends up in her bed because she equates her promiscuity to love,  that nigga that think he's God's gift to the female species, or that mug who just don't give a FUCK either way.

Now how can you expect a man to respect you when you sell sex? Now don't get me wrong a little sex appeal can seal the deal, but a full strip show is ridiculous.  Women, just because it comes in your size doesn't mean that it is for you.  Know your body type, know what looks good on you cuz sister girls y'all are looking quite scandalous. Some of your running around looking like America's Next Top Hooker with boy shorts on to the flap of your wings, no bra (and you now your ass in the double letters), and your baby sister's shirt five years young. Where is your sense of class? Your fucking morals and values? Your fucking conscious? Conscious defined by Webster is "having mental faculties not dulled by sleep, faintness, or stupor: awake and acting with critical awareness." Wake the fuck up and act like you got some damn sense please.

A real man doesn't want anything to do with you cause you don't know your own self worth. Something without value is worthless.

Now fellas, fellas, fellas.  Where do you get off walking around with your pants around your ankles, the inability to complete a full thought verbally, or the expectation that a real woman is going to take care of you while you pursue your rap career at 35? WTF?!?!?!? Now how can a woman respect you when you call at all hours of the night or once in a blue moon, talking about sex 15 mins into the conversation,or taking chest pics and putting them on the Internet like you are a body builder? I'm not gonna take you seriously, much less respect your stupidity.  Nigga stop thinking somebody wants you just because she looks in your direction. She might have been looking at the sign behind you.  Stop running around high on testosterone, putting your nuts in everything.  That shit is lame. You're not 50 cent and even if you were grow the fuck up! Every woman is not a bitch, nor is she your momma. If you got mommy issues, seek professional help.

See at the end of the day, real people respect themselves inside and out.  They fully understand themselves and make great strides to live to the best of their abilities.  They love who they are and its apparent in the way they carry themselves, the way they dress, the way they communicate, and the way they respect others. So the question is are you awaiting your weekly certification for URB (Unconscionable Respect Benefits) or are you Respecting your Conscious? 

~The Goddess~